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Dear Future Husband

Hailey Madison47 Comments

I don’t yet know who I’m writing this to, but I know it’s somebody pretty amazing.

I often think about who you are. From the sound of your laugh, to the color of your eyes. I wonder about you. What’s your name? What’s your personality? Where are you and what are you doing at this very moment as I write this? I also wonder if you ever think about who I am? I really have so many thoughts and questions, but I know they won’t be answered until we meet. I truly do excitedly await the day that happens, but until then, I will peacefully and happily wait for you.

I am not ready for a relationship right now, and I won’t worry about it either, because God has promised you to me. God has promised us to eachother. I am not going to carry the burden of worrying about never finding you, and never finding love. God has destined for us to be together and designed us for eachother from the very beginning. And I don’t need to hopelessly search for love as if it hasn’t been with me my entire life! God has always loved me more than anything. He has held me in his hands and walked alongside me every day, and he holds my heart until the day comes when he gives it away to you. Even after that, God will still forever hold my heart and I trust him with all of this.

I will not go around searching through every guy I can to try and find you. Why? Because I don’t need to. God always makes a way and somehow, somewhere, someday, he will bring us to eachother. I don’t need to always have a boyfriend with me to be happy, which sadly so many women and girls today think is true. Until I truly find you; the one I’m meant to be with, I am going to stay young and free, living wildly, and happily. I don’t need a boyfriend with me to be happy every second. God always makes a way.

I am not just looking for a guy with a pretty face, because BOI that is not all it takes to win my heart. I don’t want that guy always showing out and begging for attention, or flirting clearly with all these other girls. I don’t want that guy who covers up his intelligence with fake stupidity just for attention. I want a guy full of love, light, and willingness to help. I want a guy who does kind things anonymously and expects nothing but joy in return. I want the guy who shows his smarts without “showing off”.

I don’t want someone who shows his love through money or expensive things. I want a guy who truly and genuinely shows that he loves me. I want somebody different. Unique. Someone special. I am waiting for someone that will dream with me, and hold my hand walking alongside me. Someone that will be a complete goofball, and laugh with me. Someone who loves, trusts, has faith in God and will pray with me. Someone that’ll go on adventures and try new things with me. Someone who will care for me, and truly love me for who I am. I am waiting for someone that will roll down the car windows and blast our favorite songs! I am waiting for you.

I am waiting for someone funny, intelligent, sweet, kind, strong, brave, and caring. (and maybe a little cute, idk. 😁) I am waiting for someone that will live free, and wild. I am waiting for someone that I will love so very deeply.

I want you to be the only one I’m ever in a relationship with, but no one can guarantee that’s how it’ll happen. And that’s okay. Every relationship is a learning experience, and God uses everything for the greater good in life.

I don’t know who you are, where you are at, or what you look like, but I know God is preparing us specially for eachother. The wait may be pretty hard sometimes, but it’s gonna be so worth it.

I cannot wait to share my life with you. To tell you stories, hold your hand, share our dreams, and do things we never imagined. Agh, I’m so excited and curious about you and the life ahead that it makes my heart ache. God is gonna do so many amazing things beyond our dreams, I imagine there’ll be lots of surprises along the way.

I wonder alot about you.

I wonder where and when we’ll just happen to stumble upon eachother and meet.

Again, I don’t know who you are, and I’m probably gonna have to wait awhile to figure that out, but I am so very excited. So while I wait, I am going to continue to grow in my faith and in discovering my identity and a beautiful young woman. I am going to always live the best life I can.

I am going to live joyfully, positively, kindly, faithfully, independently, lovingly, freely, goofily, memorably, courageously, and passionately. Because I want to be the best I can for you, God, my family, friends, and even myself. I know that you will be perfect for me, and just what I need.

Life is gonna hold some crazy things, but the thing is, God holds life. So hang on tight, and i’ll see ya real soon dude.

I can’t wait to meet you.

47 thoughts on “Dear Future Husband”

  6. Hahah, so I was thinking of Meghan Trainor’s song Dear Future Husband( I don’t know if you know it) by the the title of your post!
    Such a beautiful post and haha same girl 😂God has a plan for each and everyone of us so, trying to be the best we can possibly be is important.

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  10. So pretty I want to cry 🥰😭 I love this Hailey! I wish I learned this before I started dating. Keep this in mind forever pleassssseeeeee!!!

    P.s. A note to Haileys future husband from her best friend you hurt her we are gonna have problems… 😤

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  11. Do I love this post? WHAT THE FUDGE I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS POST LIKE SO FREAKING MUCH! Do you know how BEAUTIFUL this post is?! I know that you’re going to be a goofy (in a good way), pretty, intelligent and positive woman and the man who’s going to win your heart IS GOING TO BE THE LUCKIEST MAN ON THE PLANET, and if he doesn’t think that, you got your chicken nugget fam! Also I literally died when you said cause BOI that is not all it takes to win my heart.
    Loads of loveee,
    Srisha/ Cookie Girl

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    • Awww oh my gosh you just made me CRY!! 😭❤ You are just too sweet, gurl you don’t even know how much you just touched my heart you are literally so amazing!! 💕 Thank you so so so much, aghhh I can’t even right now you are just too good to be true! Haha, yes I loved that part so much! 😂 Ugh, my heart though! Thank you again so much, love ya lots my dear chicken nugget! Have an absolutely blessed day ❤

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      • Same to you! And I actually meant what I said.. cause *ehm* that’s GONNAAA HAPPEENNNN!! Whoop whoop! You gotta tell us some things about your LUCKIEST MAN ON THE PLANET when you meet him!
        See ya later!😊💕

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  13. Aww this is so beautiful! I’m still pretty young but I think about this kind of thing a lot to and I pray for my future husband a lot. I think it’s super fun to imagine baby names, wedding dresses, what he might be like, but it’s also important to not get wrapped up in that too much haha! I think I’ll do this but maybe as a private letter in my journal. Thanks for the inspiration and this was so beautiful to read. ❤️

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    • Thank you so very much Emmie, this made me so happy! ; ) Haha, girl I totally get that. I have had so many people tell me that i’m too young to be thinking about this stuff but really I’m not! And neither are you! It’s so great to pray about your future husband and praying that God will guide you through finding him! Yes! I really do enjoy imagining those kinds of things, but I totally agree with that as well getting too caught up in it is something to avoid, you don’t want to always be dreaming about a big wedding or falling in love and stuff because eventually you’ll start putting those fantasies before everything else. I’m so glad you liked this! That’s so great! Thanks again so much Emmie! 💕

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